I'm a secular Jew, so I do understand the intent -- and appreciate it!
I've talked to him before about sex, and have said before that I firmly believe he should wait (and why), but that I also wanted him to wear protection if he absolutely had to engage in it. I am trying to avoid making it even more attractive (as in the thrill of the forbidden), and really, it's not a big deal as long as he's careful.
It's the lying and the disrespect that send me into the stratosphere. There's just no need for it. She is a piece of work!
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Date: 2011-05-24 12:19 pm (UTC)I've talked to him before about sex, and have said before that I firmly believe he should wait (and why), but that I also wanted him to wear protection if he absolutely had to engage in it. I am trying to avoid making it even more attractive (as in the thrill of the forbidden), and really, it's not a big deal as long as he's careful.
It's the lying and the disrespect that send me into the stratosphere. There's just no need for it. She is a piece of work!
(Thanks again)