I cycle through three phases: sadness and grief, with waterworks; anger, in which I have to be really careful to watch out for retaliation and other non-productive approaches; and neutral. When I wrote the post, I was in Deep Neutral, probably enhanced by donating blood this AM. I just finished riding a surge of anger into an hour of cleaning in the bedroom, which still needs more work, but is at least a little better.
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Date: 2010-02-02 03:05 am (UTC)One day at a time...