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etumukutenyak ([personal profile] etumukutenyak) wrote2009-07-28 02:32 am

The 2 AM phone call

Honey's mom just died. Since she'd been going visibly downhill in the past few months, and years, it was one of those combined relief-and-grief moments. She was the oldest of her siblings; the youngest is now the only remaining. Lots of cousins to be notified, etc.

[identity profile] oddnari.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 06:50 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, my dear! I'm so sorry to hear that.

Please accept my condolences. I feel bad Honey has to go through such a rotten time. I hope she feels better soon. I will remember Honey's mum in my paath. ♥

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 06:59 am (UTC)(link)
I'll pass along your kind words, thanks.

[identity profile] janetmk.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 10:19 am (UTC)(link)
My condolences.

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 10:26 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] fledgist.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 11:51 am (UTC)(link)
My condolences. You must be going through a lot.

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 01:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks. It's fairly low-key right now; Honey and her sibs had been spending time with their Mom -- as much time as possible, especially in recent weeks -- because they knew her time was getting short. (It isn't as bad as when her Dad died suddenly, about 6 years ago. That was a severe blow.) There's some grief, but she stayed up all night working on stuff, so by now things are calmer.

I expect it will ramp up once the funeral arrangements are made and the relatives from out-of-town start arriving.

[identity profile] brownkitty.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences, and wishes for strength for you both.

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, BK. I know she'll need it today.

[identity profile] serge-lj.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 05:55 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences to both of you.

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

[identity profile] davefreer.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 07:11 pm (UTC)(link)
My sympathies, especially for the young 'un.
Dave

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
He's luckily away in a computer camp for the week, but I'll send your sympathies on to him as well.

[identity profile] mjlayman.livejournal.com 2009-07-28 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks.

[identity profile] i-calql8.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
My sympathies to you and Honey...no matter how it happens, it's never easy. :-(

::leaves chocolates and tea in the usual place::

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, it's not easy, but Honey's got four siblings to share this time, and they've all pulled together.

How did you know I was snacking on chocolates and tea? Om nom nom! (sluuuuuuuurp)

[identity profile] i-calql8.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I'm just smart like that. ;-)

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2009-07-29 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, but...that was exactly what I had in hand at that moment. Uncanny!

(OK, I'd rather not admit to being that reliable...)